Am having the most relaxed sojourn to Montreal ever. Came down yesterday and had that magical whole set of seats to myself so lots of room to spread out and work on that presentation I'm giving on Wednesday. Have to sit next to x-ine tomorrow, boo (I keed, I keed!). Then after some very productive meetings with various research collaborators who did not murder me for not bringing a new draft of the paper of death but rather asked for my expertise (ha!) on various subjects that I guess I do know something about, or encouraged me to find all sorts of training to be an awesome leader, I got to have dinner chez the new apartment of my former roomie and one of my other besties.
Today was a late wake up, shopping and deal finding on Ste Catherine and a DEELISH late afternoon lunch at Juliette et Chocolat with yet another dear friend (I have a lot of those in this city), we are now deposing before making dinner for another wonderful person.
I'm making inroads on my holiday shopping but let's not discuss the Christmas card situation. I have a lot to deal with at work still but with weekends and friends like this I think I can get by.
(NYC pictures still to come I swear!)
Saturday, December 10, 2011
Sunday, November 20, 2011
Not always efficient....
So that last post about being an AWESOME packer? I might have to take back some of it after I brought a very full duffel (including 3 pairs of shoes for 3 days) to NYC with friends, and didn't have much room for shopping, so I had to check that bag to carry on a very full shopping bag?
Anyways, we had a blast, will work on a full run down for you, now am dealing with all the laundry I should do but a few highlights include seeing Harry Potter sing and dance, getting into a new hot store (where my preppy soul found it's Mecca) before many actual New Yorkers, gorgeous architecture and of course lots of laughs. This weekend was so, so needed and while I am currently sleepy,nit gave me that (forcible) unplug and refresh.
Anyways, we had a blast, will work on a full run down for you, now am dealing with all the laundry I should do but a few highlights include seeing Harry Potter sing and dance, getting into a new hot store (where my preppy soul found it's Mecca) before many actual New Yorkers, gorgeous architecture and of course lots of laughs. This weekend was so, so needed and while I am currently sleepy,nit gave me that (forcible) unplug and refresh.
Saturday, November 12, 2011
LadyLaptop's Commandments...
...for an efficient business trip.
Hi friends - I'm back from yet another business trip, this one several days on the not so sunny west coast. I had headed out hoping for warmer temperatures than the O-town but instead back here they had record highs. In any case, the trip went well, had some productive meetings and got to stay in a hotel for more than one night. I got to unpack - a luxury! Anyways, with a number of recent trips and more to come, I've learned some lessons I'd like to pass on to my dear readers. And you'd better listen or I may take you down if you're slowing down the security line.
1. Thou shalt pack in colour schemes
This trip I based around my current favourite flats - blue suede with tassels and these brown snake ones from Old Navy. So everything I brought coordinated with both shoes, including two pairs of dress pants (brown and black), one black skirt, one brown and black tweed blazer, one blue and brown blouse, one formal yet comfortable/flowy navy cardigan, and t-shirts/tank tops to match. I also had simple yet formal enough jewelry. Please note that I brought flats - unless you are really, really, really good in heels, they are more likely to be a hindrance in the airport and are way bulkier to pack.
2. Thou shalt pack for surprises
I had never attended this conference before and thus was prepared for scale of formalities all the way from business casual to full on suit. Most of the attendees ended up on the casual side but when my regional director showed up in a shirt and jacket I was happy to have my blazer and other more formal clothes as I was representing my Depatment. I also packed one extra outfit that was suitable for going out to dinner/just in case.
3. Thou shalt be nice to people in the airport
Yes going through security is a pain and often the agents aren't the friendlist, but that doesn't mean you should be mean in return. Say 'thank you', smile and nod. Even more important, be nice to the people at the counters, gates, attendants, etc. They can make your trip super smooth and give you a whole bottle of sparkling water or they can 'forget' to give you your mini cookies and send your bags to Saskatchewan.
4. Thou shalt look cute
I know that sneakers and a pair of lulus are the most comfortable thing to travel in but I just can't. I wear either my super comfy dress pants that feel like lulus that look way better, or a pair of nice straight jeans, always with flats just in case I have to take them off. I also layer - you never know what temperatures you will encounter, or more importantly, what kind of fascinating man you may be sitting next to.
5. Thou shalt moisturize
The flights over the past few weeks, as well as sleeping on sheets likely not washed
with my hypoallergenic detergent, have been hell on my skin. So before I took off I went and invested in some really good moisture creams which were applied morning than night and made a big difference. Lip gloss and drinking only water/juice on the plane versus soda or alcohol are also important.
6. Thou shalt snack smart
Most carriers in this country now offer barely any food or drink and airports are PRICEY so I had a bunch of bags of trail mix in my suitcase and picked up cheese/other allowable options before heading over whenever I could. Made a big difference both in dollah bills spent and my overall mood.
7. Thou shalt not get bored
I probably over prepare for flights/lay overs but it means that even in my most ADD states I always can keep myself occupied, essential for a slightly nervous flyer and type A personality who hates delays. I had with me my own i.Pad with lots of books and movies on it, a work laptop with actual work to do, a book/magazine for when I got tired of that work/while taking off or landing, and headphones to take advantage of the inflight entertainment while working. I tend to be productive for about half a flight and then need other things to do. As well, while I love watching TV in the hotel beds before falling asleep, I still sleep best reading for a bit before turning out the light.
8. Thou shalt bring your own alarm
Rarely are those clock radios anywhere near reliable so I set my crackberry as I do most mornings I am home, I know it works and it will get me up.
9. Thou shalt spoil yourself
This week I worked really long hours, the time delay meaning that when I woke up around 6 I usually had at least 15 e-mails already to start responding to before my meetings and sessions started, then picked up whatever I had missed at the end of the day, as well as doing any real work I had to do. I have realized that taking advantage of room service, with either a glass of wine or a sundae (below) makes a big difference.
10. Thou shalt take a walk
At least once a day, get the hell out of whatever conference rooms you've been immured in. Even if its just around the block, over to that interesting store or cafe across the street - getting out and clearing your head will make a big difference. If you're somewhere where you don't get a lot or have never been, ask if there is somewhere near by to check out. Who knows what kind of cool souvenirs you may find!
I know there are usually ten of these but here is the most important commandment
11. Thou shalt follow the rules and GET OVER YOURSELF
Your liquid foundation is more than 100 mL but you really really want to keep it along with your four carry ons? You really need to keep texting despite us being ready for take off? Um, no. You are not a super special snowflake and as annoying as the rules may be these days they are there for a reason and we all have to abide by them. If you are blocking the aisle of the plane trying to lift your way too big and heavy carry on into the bin I am not going to be sympathetic unless you're over 75 and STILL. Travelling is not a rocket science but it does require you to be aware of what's going on around you, and realizing that your own incompetence doesn't make you endearing and one of the 'people' to your fellow passengers as you protest well publicized and very clear rules, but rather the person we all bond in hating. Just an FYI.
I hope that you will also take these commandments to heart and are all able to become efficient and happy travellers. I hope we can all share in a drink at an airport bar someday.
Hi friends - I'm back from yet another business trip, this one several days on the not so sunny west coast. I had headed out hoping for warmer temperatures than the O-town but instead back here they had record highs. In any case, the trip went well, had some productive meetings and got to stay in a hotel for more than one night. I got to unpack - a luxury! Anyways, with a number of recent trips and more to come, I've learned some lessons I'd like to pass on to my dear readers. And you'd better listen or I may take you down if you're slowing down the security line.
1. Thou shalt pack in colour schemes
This trip I based around my current favourite flats - blue suede with tassels and these brown snake ones from Old Navy. So everything I brought coordinated with both shoes, including two pairs of dress pants (brown and black), one black skirt, one brown and black tweed blazer, one blue and brown blouse, one formal yet comfortable/flowy navy cardigan, and t-shirts/tank tops to match. I also had simple yet formal enough jewelry. Please note that I brought flats - unless you are really, really, really good in heels, they are more likely to be a hindrance in the airport and are way bulkier to pack.
2. Thou shalt pack for surprises
I had never attended this conference before and thus was prepared for scale of formalities all the way from business casual to full on suit. Most of the attendees ended up on the casual side but when my regional director showed up in a shirt and jacket I was happy to have my blazer and other more formal clothes as I was representing my Depatment. I also packed one extra outfit that was suitable for going out to dinner/just in case.
3. Thou shalt be nice to people in the airport
Yes going through security is a pain and often the agents aren't the friendlist, but that doesn't mean you should be mean in return. Say 'thank you', smile and nod. Even more important, be nice to the people at the counters, gates, attendants, etc. They can make your trip super smooth and give you a whole bottle of sparkling water or they can 'forget' to give you your mini cookies and send your bags to Saskatchewan.
4. Thou shalt look cute
I know that sneakers and a pair of lulus are the most comfortable thing to travel in but I just can't. I wear either my super comfy dress pants that feel like lulus that look way better, or a pair of nice straight jeans, always with flats just in case I have to take them off. I also layer - you never know what temperatures you will encounter, or more importantly, what kind of fascinating man you may be sitting next to.
5. Thou shalt moisturize
The flights over the past few weeks, as well as sleeping on sheets likely not washed
with my hypoallergenic detergent, have been hell on my skin. So before I took off I went and invested in some really good moisture creams which were applied morning than night and made a big difference. Lip gloss and drinking only water/juice on the plane versus soda or alcohol are also important.
6. Thou shalt snack smart
Most carriers in this country now offer barely any food or drink and airports are PRICEY so I had a bunch of bags of trail mix in my suitcase and picked up cheese/other allowable options before heading over whenever I could. Made a big difference both in dollah bills spent and my overall mood.
7. Thou shalt not get bored
I probably over prepare for flights/lay overs but it means that even in my most ADD states I always can keep myself occupied, essential for a slightly nervous flyer and type A personality who hates delays. I had with me my own i.Pad with lots of books and movies on it, a work laptop with actual work to do, a book/magazine for when I got tired of that work/while taking off or landing, and headphones to take advantage of the inflight entertainment while working. I tend to be productive for about half a flight and then need other things to do. As well, while I love watching TV in the hotel beds before falling asleep, I still sleep best reading for a bit before turning out the light.
8. Thou shalt bring your own alarm
Rarely are those clock radios anywhere near reliable so I set my crackberry as I do most mornings I am home, I know it works and it will get me up.
9. Thou shalt spoil yourself
This week I worked really long hours, the time delay meaning that when I woke up around 6 I usually had at least 15 e-mails already to start responding to before my meetings and sessions started, then picked up whatever I had missed at the end of the day, as well as doing any real work I had to do. I have realized that taking advantage of room service, with either a glass of wine or a sundae (below) makes a big difference.
10. Thou shalt take a walk
At least once a day, get the hell out of whatever conference rooms you've been immured in. Even if its just around the block, over to that interesting store or cafe across the street - getting out and clearing your head will make a big difference. If you're somewhere where you don't get a lot or have never been, ask if there is somewhere near by to check out. Who knows what kind of cool souvenirs you may find!
I know there are usually ten of these but here is the most important commandment
11. Thou shalt follow the rules and GET OVER YOURSELF
Your liquid foundation is more than 100 mL but you really really want to keep it along with your four carry ons? You really need to keep texting despite us being ready for take off? Um, no. You are not a super special snowflake and as annoying as the rules may be these days they are there for a reason and we all have to abide by them. If you are blocking the aisle of the plane trying to lift your way too big and heavy carry on into the bin I am not going to be sympathetic unless you're over 75 and STILL. Travelling is not a rocket science but it does require you to be aware of what's going on around you, and realizing that your own incompetence doesn't make you endearing and one of the 'people' to your fellow passengers as you protest well publicized and very clear rules, but rather the person we all bond in hating. Just an FYI.
I hope that you will also take these commandments to heart and are all able to become efficient and happy travellers. I hope we can all share in a drink at an airport bar someday.
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Accomplishments and balance
I got home tonight from bootcamp (with my usual workout buddy x-ine AND my dear friend S., who survived 3 minute winds sprints along side us tonight), and as I do, started scrolling through twitter as we made dinner to see if I had missed anything. I had, the news of Steve Jobs' very sad passing has come through.
Now I am writing this post on my I.Pad. The products he created impacted my life and truly changed the world around us. I saw someone on twitter tonight saying that he will some day be compared to the likes of Edison and I fully agree. He died too young but it cannot be said he did not accomplish a great deal in his life.
To be honest, I did not actually accomplish much today, I mainly sat in meetings, but while at times I sat and couldn't help but think about all the work I could have been doing at the same time, I was intellectually engaged and talking about relevant things. I struggle at time with balancing the rest of my life with my recently ramped up work commitments and part of the problem is that I (for the most part because I am human) like my job. It is challenging and interesting, I think I am doing some good while I am also being given the opportunity to grow. I, again for the most part, like the people I work with and want the 'team' I am on to succeed. So it's hard to turn my brain off, hard to leave when I have more to do and as of tomorrow I will be receiving a crack berry (so I'll now be carrying around 2! RIM should send flowers) which will make it all the harder. But I'm kind of ok with that. Because in the long run, it is part of what I want to accomplish in my life. Probably won't have quite the impact of Steve Jobs but there will be one from me, just give me time and more caffeine as fuel.
(PS I would very much like it for men younger than my father to stop dying please, he is thank goodness quite healthy, but one of my other major accomplishments in life I am striving for will be to see him as the awesome grandfather I know he will be. Just gotta work on the father of those kids still...)
Now I am writing this post on my I.Pad. The products he created impacted my life and truly changed the world around us. I saw someone on twitter tonight saying that he will some day be compared to the likes of Edison and I fully agree. He died too young but it cannot be said he did not accomplish a great deal in his life.
To be honest, I did not actually accomplish much today, I mainly sat in meetings, but while at times I sat and couldn't help but think about all the work I could have been doing at the same time, I was intellectually engaged and talking about relevant things. I struggle at time with balancing the rest of my life with my recently ramped up work commitments and part of the problem is that I (for the most part because I am human) like my job. It is challenging and interesting, I think I am doing some good while I am also being given the opportunity to grow. I, again for the most part, like the people I work with and want the 'team' I am on to succeed. So it's hard to turn my brain off, hard to leave when I have more to do and as of tomorrow I will be receiving a crack berry (so I'll now be carrying around 2! RIM should send flowers) which will make it all the harder. But I'm kind of ok with that. Because in the long run, it is part of what I want to accomplish in my life. Probably won't have quite the impact of Steve Jobs but there will be one from me, just give me time and more caffeine as fuel.
(PS I would very much like it for men younger than my father to stop dying please, he is thank goodness quite healthy, but one of my other major accomplishments in life I am striving for will be to see him as the awesome grandfather I know he will be. Just gotta work on the father of those kids still...)
Thursday, September 22, 2011
A boyfriend for Christmas
That is the resolution one of my friends has recently made. We were out at the pub a stones throw from our office (I can see the patio from my cubicle window, it is very mean on bright sunny days), and after we had moaned and groaned about the bureaucracy we inhabit and have ended up helping perpetuate, we moaned and groaned about the lack of guys in the O-town.
Now, numerically, there are many men in this fair city of mine. However, meeting these men is the challenge. If I don't work with them, play a sport with them or they are a friend or friend of friend or coworker of a friend.... I may never encounter them. Online dating helps but that comes with it's own set of special circumstances. And when you are more than slightly discerning.... It's tough.
Now I have had days this week where lunch has been an afterthought and the month ahead makes me more than slightly want to weep. But I also have my annoying friends telling me about this life balance bullshit and a boyfriend certainly would be nice... So an effort I will make. When I can. Because a boyfriend for Christmas is not a repellent idea. Now who's got one for me? ;)
Now, numerically, there are many men in this fair city of mine. However, meeting these men is the challenge. If I don't work with them, play a sport with them or they are a friend or friend of friend or coworker of a friend.... I may never encounter them. Online dating helps but that comes with it's own set of special circumstances. And when you are more than slightly discerning.... It's tough.
Now I have had days this week where lunch has been an afterthought and the month ahead makes me more than slightly want to weep. But I also have my annoying friends telling me about this life balance bullshit and a boyfriend certainly would be nice... So an effort I will make. When I can. Because a boyfriend for Christmas is not a repellent idea. Now who's got one for me? ;)
Monday, September 19, 2011
26
That is indeed how old I am now. Eesh. I had no issues with 25, was even pretty excited for it and nary a quarter life crisis but now... C'mon, I'm closer to 30 than 20! that is NOT COOL.
Though at times I talk (and text) like I'm 13.
With all the extra work pressure and many outside of work commitments, ie. Weddings weddings weddings, I have been feeling as though I should be more mature. A bit more considered in my actions, more organized, less of a potty mouth. I may not have a boyfriend but I could read a smart book, instead of the Romance novels which are my current bread and butter of literature. (Vogue counts right? The last one I bought had a profile of the new head of the IMF).
And then this weekend I went to a friends birthday party. I went with another friend and on the way over we agreed to split one bottle of wine and head out by 11:30, max.
The night ended past 2 am, in a MacDonalds, after playing (and losing hard) Kings Cup, drinking way more than half a bottle of wine, asking acquaintances 'so - you still employed?' when I know they are likely on the chopping block, and flirting with a boy who I later discovered was very much taken.
And I had a BLAST. I'm 26, not dead, and I still have some fun in me. I'm going to continue to try new things, but am also going to continue enjoy the things I like to do, however immature. I'm going to return to New York City with 2 fabulous ladies and have a ridiculous time. I am going to let myself unwind on the weekends, and if that involves sleeping in, lazing about, spending my hard earned money on frivolous items and booze - SO BE IT.
I'll do my best but am not promising, to keep you informed of my exploits. Commitments of any kind are still a bit beyond me and that's ok.
Though at times I talk (and text) like I'm 13.
With all the extra work pressure and many outside of work commitments, ie. Weddings weddings weddings, I have been feeling as though I should be more mature. A bit more considered in my actions, more organized, less of a potty mouth. I may not have a boyfriend but I could read a smart book, instead of the Romance novels which are my current bread and butter of literature. (Vogue counts right? The last one I bought had a profile of the new head of the IMF).
And then this weekend I went to a friends birthday party. I went with another friend and on the way over we agreed to split one bottle of wine and head out by 11:30, max.
The night ended past 2 am, in a MacDonalds, after playing (and losing hard) Kings Cup, drinking way more than half a bottle of wine, asking acquaintances 'so - you still employed?' when I know they are likely on the chopping block, and flirting with a boy who I later discovered was very much taken.
And I had a BLAST. I'm 26, not dead, and I still have some fun in me. I'm going to continue to try new things, but am also going to continue enjoy the things I like to do, however immature. I'm going to return to New York City with 2 fabulous ladies and have a ridiculous time. I am going to let myself unwind on the weekends, and if that involves sleeping in, lazing about, spending my hard earned money on frivolous items and booze - SO BE IT.
I'll do my best but am not promising, to keep you informed of my exploits. Commitments of any kind are still a bit beyond me and that's ok.
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Stress relief
In the government, summer is supposed to be easy. Two thirds of staff are on vacation (or so it seems), there's no one in Parliament to ask annoying questions about your department and you're still in the dawn of the new fiscal year. Easy-peasy.
Maybe for most. But not for me and my colleagues this year.
Yes it is several months into a new fiscal year but we still don't have 2/3 of our budget in place, it was only actually secured a few weeks ago. So we suddenly have 2/3 of the time we usually do to spend all our money in a responsible fashion.
I can deal with that, we knew it was coming, but thanks to a few HR shake ups, were suddenly operating minus some very key players and I have way more responsibility than I anticipated. So I'm a little stressed, or at least, way more than I should be for August.
I was good, I took vacation, generally ignored the crack berry but several days back into working my neck was already taut with tension and I don't see that changing anytime soon.
So while I do intend to abuse alcohol on a fairly regular basis (I do have birthday in just a few short weeks) and lacking a boyfriend for that other form of stress relief (not for lack of trying, and there may even be a few promising prospects), for the sake of my liver, my own sanity and that of my friends and coworkers, I need to find some ways to RELAX.
So far this week - I had a lovely massage which included venting to my very understanding masseuse (she told me people with a lot of tension in the forearms have issues with control, I'm surprised I can still feel my fingers if that's true). It's expensive but I think a habit I'll be keeping up.
Tonight my lovely roomie and I hit bootcamp, which though it involved way too many step ups on a high ledge than I would have preferred, also includes PUNCHING. I LIKE PUNCHING. Will definitely keep this up for the fall.
Still to come this week, a trip to the hot springs with my girls (which will involve martinis) and hanging out with my very bestie (which will involve wine).
I'm always trying to reward myself like with the possibility of awesome trips in a couple of months (NYC, and somewhere warm this winter). E
Maybe I can make it through all this craziness, with judicial applications of endorphins, pampering and alcohol (post boot camp beer tonight was awesome). But I am still open to suggestions - how do you relax? Anything but for illegal drugs and baths (I can't stand just sitting there and candles make me nervous) I'm probably game.
Maybe for most. But not for me and my colleagues this year.
Yes it is several months into a new fiscal year but we still don't have 2/3 of our budget in place, it was only actually secured a few weeks ago. So we suddenly have 2/3 of the time we usually do to spend all our money in a responsible fashion.
I can deal with that, we knew it was coming, but thanks to a few HR shake ups, were suddenly operating minus some very key players and I have way more responsibility than I anticipated. So I'm a little stressed, or at least, way more than I should be for August.
I was good, I took vacation, generally ignored the crack berry but several days back into working my neck was already taut with tension and I don't see that changing anytime soon.
So while I do intend to abuse alcohol on a fairly regular basis (I do have birthday in just a few short weeks) and lacking a boyfriend for that other form of stress relief (not for lack of trying, and there may even be a few promising prospects), for the sake of my liver, my own sanity and that of my friends and coworkers, I need to find some ways to RELAX.
So far this week - I had a lovely massage which included venting to my very understanding masseuse (she told me people with a lot of tension in the forearms have issues with control, I'm surprised I can still feel my fingers if that's true). It's expensive but I think a habit I'll be keeping up.
Tonight my lovely roomie and I hit bootcamp, which though it involved way too many step ups on a high ledge than I would have preferred, also includes PUNCHING. I LIKE PUNCHING. Will definitely keep this up for the fall.
Still to come this week, a trip to the hot springs with my girls (which will involve martinis) and hanging out with my very bestie (which will involve wine).
I'm always trying to reward myself like with the possibility of awesome trips in a couple of months (NYC, and somewhere warm this winter). E
Maybe I can make it through all this craziness, with judicial applications of endorphins, pampering and alcohol (post boot camp beer tonight was awesome). But I am still open to suggestions - how do you relax? Anything but for illegal drugs and baths (I can't stand just sitting there and candles make me nervous) I'm probably game.
Sunday, July 10, 2011
Montreal
As promised, I'm back again, to tell you about my weekend in the wonderful Montreal. I got to return to my second favourite city ever (the home town has to take first) to hang with some of my very favourite people in the whole world.
X_ine and I kicked things off with a little train drinking (first, see her looking very serious reading, I was playing with my i.Pad and took a sneaky picture of her. If botany doesn't work out, I may try the spy game).
Upon arrival, we followed that drink with several margaritas in short succession to take advantage of having arrived in town during happy hour, with my FORMER roomie Liz. X_ine went off to hang with her boy but Liz and I kept going with more good friends with my masters days, following that with a little tipsy shopping (which is either hilariously or in a concerning way becoming a habit). Lesson of the evening? I am too old for Forever21.
Saturday Liz and I did some major retail therapy (I again wail: 'Whhhhhhhhhy does Ottawa not yet have an H&M???) and then in further fashion pursuits, I went with another long time friend who now lives down the street from my old apartment to the Jean Paul Gaultier exhibit at the Musee des Beaux Arts. The clothes were beautiful but the mannequins with faces projected onto them, especially the one that LOOKED like Gaultier to welcome you to the exhibit... straight up creepy.
The rest of the weekend involved more drinks, frozen yogourt (another thing to add to the list that Ottawa needs NOW. Pick my flavours? Mix them? Choose my own toppings? SIGN ME UP FOR MORE), and today brunch and a teensy bit more shopping (which is the last of that for the rest of the month, le sigh, my VISA card will be weeping soon).
I love having the people of Montreal, and even the city itself, in my life. I didn't realize how much I missed it until the train ride in when I started getting bouncy, which only amped up once the train was pulling in and I saw the skyline. It's great to go there, know where I'm going, what I want to do - but always have new things to discover with some pretty amazing people. I need to get better at getting down there, it is honestly incredibly cheap and convenient, though thanks to both of our busy weekends both X-ine and I were quite tired, and are making it an early night. But as I said last time, this is the time of my life to have super fun weekends and get through Monday will liberal amounts of latte.
So there you go, my weekend in Montreal. I may whine and moan about what it has that Ottawa doesn't, but it is just down the road...
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
To dos
So, um, hi.
It's July.
I went on a bit of an unexpected hiatus there, due to a combination of factors, including the fabulous x_ine moving in, meaning that I have someone to blather to in the evenings, and the usual summertime rush of so much to do! I have softball, I have evenings on patioa... it's easier to find time to blog when it's -40 outside and I have no intention of leaving my house.
But somehow, I was shocked when it was suddenly July. I had a very relaxing Canada Day, spent mainly on the dock at my cottage, reading magazines as I really had no interest in braving the crowds downtown, despite the chance of getting to see Will and Kate in person. That relaxing day gave me some time to ponder.
July 1 marks the beginning of the second half of 2011, and I turn *gulp* 26 in slightly more than two months. I started thinking about what I had done so far this year, and what I still want to accomplish. This brought me to a realization.
I, at times, can be somewhat single minded. Some would call it stubborn but I like single minded (says the only child who is used to getting what she wants). That single mindedness however seems to have landed me in a bit of a rut. Sure I do have lots of friends and lots of things to do, but besides buying the condo last year and having a new roomie (and cat), not much in my life has changed. This needs to change.
So what do I want to do in the time that is left in 2011 and as I start the slow march towards 30 (I'm not reeeeeeeeeeeeady)? I want to try new things. I want to go to the places I haven't been (saying it now, Argentina before I'm 30), expand my horizons in all directions(hoping to visit the Northwest Territories this year). I started boot camp this week, as I could honestly stand to lose a couple of pounds, I want to look awesome in a bridesmaid dress in a few months. So activity has to become a bigger part of my life (the new roomie is a pretty excellent influence in this regard). She says I get really focused while shadow boxing and honestly I rather enjoy it - might look into other forms of boxing!
Speaking of bridesmaids, I got to attend a pretty awesome wedding last month and seeing my friends happy brings me so much joy - but I want some of that for myself. I will continue to put myself out there (unfortunately my statement of merit hasn't garnered many applications recently - but maybe I shouldn't be quite so choosy).
I enjoy my work but I can't let it become my life. I need to find ways to give back to my community, and more importantly become better at giving back to my friends and family who support me so much. I should go back to therapy to be sure that I can express my feelings in positive ways, rather than letting the snark win, which is rarely good for any relationship.
Overall, 2011 has been a pretty good year but I'm excited what is still to come, and I want to be in the best possible physical and mental shape to seize opportunities with open arms. It's one thing to be a slightly cautious 25 year old, but this is my time to take those risks.
I'm off to Mtl this weekend, and while I'll be visiting a lot of of old friends and hitting well known haunts (delicious restaurants and stores I miss ever so much), I'll try and do something a little wacky, and will report back soon.
It's July.
I went on a bit of an unexpected hiatus there, due to a combination of factors, including the fabulous x_ine moving in, meaning that I have someone to blather to in the evenings, and the usual summertime rush of so much to do! I have softball, I have evenings on patioa... it's easier to find time to blog when it's -40 outside and I have no intention of leaving my house.
But somehow, I was shocked when it was suddenly July. I had a very relaxing Canada Day, spent mainly on the dock at my cottage, reading magazines as I really had no interest in braving the crowds downtown, despite the chance of getting to see Will and Kate in person. That relaxing day gave me some time to ponder.
July 1 marks the beginning of the second half of 2011, and I turn *gulp* 26 in slightly more than two months. I started thinking about what I had done so far this year, and what I still want to accomplish. This brought me to a realization.
I, at times, can be somewhat single minded. Some would call it stubborn but I like single minded (says the only child who is used to getting what she wants). That single mindedness however seems to have landed me in a bit of a rut. Sure I do have lots of friends and lots of things to do, but besides buying the condo last year and having a new roomie (and cat), not much in my life has changed. This needs to change.
So what do I want to do in the time that is left in 2011 and as I start the slow march towards 30 (I'm not reeeeeeeeeeeeady)? I want to try new things. I want to go to the places I haven't been (saying it now, Argentina before I'm 30), expand my horizons in all directions(hoping to visit the Northwest Territories this year). I started boot camp this week, as I could honestly stand to lose a couple of pounds, I want to look awesome in a bridesmaid dress in a few months. So activity has to become a bigger part of my life (the new roomie is a pretty excellent influence in this regard). She says I get really focused while shadow boxing and honestly I rather enjoy it - might look into other forms of boxing!
Speaking of bridesmaids, I got to attend a pretty awesome wedding last month and seeing my friends happy brings me so much joy - but I want some of that for myself. I will continue to put myself out there (unfortunately my statement of merit hasn't garnered many applications recently - but maybe I shouldn't be quite so choosy).
I enjoy my work but I can't let it become my life. I need to find ways to give back to my community, and more importantly become better at giving back to my friends and family who support me so much. I should go back to therapy to be sure that I can express my feelings in positive ways, rather than letting the snark win, which is rarely good for any relationship.
Overall, 2011 has been a pretty good year but I'm excited what is still to come, and I want to be in the best possible physical and mental shape to seize opportunities with open arms. It's one thing to be a slightly cautious 25 year old, but this is my time to take those risks.
I'm off to Mtl this weekend, and while I'll be visiting a lot of of old friends and hitting well known haunts (delicious restaurants and stores I miss ever so much), I'll try and do something a little wacky, and will report back soon.
Sunday, May 8, 2011
Oof
Hi again. As usual, it's on a Sunday that I find the time to catch up here.
I looked out my window yesterday morning and realized the trees have started to bud. It is finally spring, and thank goodness, because weeks of rain and cold breezes have just about done me in. Along with the ridiculous work stress. I really only had the time to glance out my window yesterday in the midst of working. Yes, on a Saturday, I was working. Don't you ever think that public service life comes without overtime. It is rare, but is always rather sucky (and yes that is the technical forestry term). Between being without a boss, having some crazy deadlines to deal with and trying to find the time to work on my french language skills in anticipation of upcoming evaluations, it has been zany. However, there is a light within sight, I hope about a week and a half from now things will settle down and I can finally stop forwarding work e-mails to my personal blackberry (which I have promising to do since... February?).
However, I try not to make this blog a whiny zone so I wanted to take a minute to highlight the things that have made the past few weeks tolerable:
- partying it up with some of my besties to celebrate one of their upcoming nuptials. I organized the bachelorette, it was on a boat style and it was pretty amazing.
- speaking of lonelyisland, this video from last night lightened my spirits a good bit (Michael Bolton is a cineophile!)
- in a fit of spring cleaning I tidied and organized my closet, organizing it by casual and work wear, and it makes planning outfits for the week (I try to plan most of the week's work outfits on Sunday night, makes mornings much easier)
- that spring cleaning fit was partly inspired by the need to get rid of boxes I had stored in my second bedroom as the lovely x-ine will soon to be moving to town and into that bedroom! I am so excited to have her here to come up with new adventures, and that I can usually peer pressure her into drinking with me so I am no longer an alcoholic drinking alone
- my friends. As usual I have some of the best friends around.
- my family, especially my mom on this mother's day. They think I'm a little nuts, don't cook enough at home, but always have my back and will give me delicious home made cookies to get me through the week.
I just have to survive a few more weeks and then it will be properly summer, and I will have the time and the new fun sidekick (plural if you count Tequila) to really take advantage. I cannot wait!
I looked out my window yesterday morning and realized the trees have started to bud. It is finally spring, and thank goodness, because weeks of rain and cold breezes have just about done me in. Along with the ridiculous work stress. I really only had the time to glance out my window yesterday in the midst of working. Yes, on a Saturday, I was working. Don't you ever think that public service life comes without overtime. It is rare, but is always rather sucky (and yes that is the technical forestry term). Between being without a boss, having some crazy deadlines to deal with and trying to find the time to work on my french language skills in anticipation of upcoming evaluations, it has been zany. However, there is a light within sight, I hope about a week and a half from now things will settle down and I can finally stop forwarding work e-mails to my personal blackberry (which I have promising to do since... February?).
However, I try not to make this blog a whiny zone so I wanted to take a minute to highlight the things that have made the past few weeks tolerable:
- partying it up with some of my besties to celebrate one of their upcoming nuptials. I organized the bachelorette, it was on a boat style and it was pretty amazing.
- speaking of lonelyisland, this video from last night lightened my spirits a good bit (Michael Bolton is a cineophile!)
- in a fit of spring cleaning I tidied and organized my closet, organizing it by casual and work wear, and it makes planning outfits for the week (I try to plan most of the week's work outfits on Sunday night, makes mornings much easier)
- that spring cleaning fit was partly inspired by the need to get rid of boxes I had stored in my second bedroom as the lovely x-ine will soon to be moving to town and into that bedroom! I am so excited to have her here to come up with new adventures, and that I can usually peer pressure her into drinking with me so I am no longer an alcoholic drinking alone
- my friends. As usual I have some of the best friends around.
- my family, especially my mom on this mother's day. They think I'm a little nuts, don't cook enough at home, but always have my back and will give me delicious home made cookies to get me through the week.
I just have to survive a few more weeks and then it will be properly summer, and I will have the time and the new fun sidekick (plural if you count Tequila) to really take advantage. I cannot wait!
Sunday, March 20, 2011
FASHION
(It's Sunday again and thus another post!)
Some people ask me why I love twitter. There are many reasons that I have become a bit of a twitter addict, from up to the minute political updates via Kady O'Malley, keeping up with friends in other places, or laughing reading the ridiculous posts of Texts from Last Night. Through twitter, I have met some super cool people in this fair town, and thanks to one of them in particular, I got to go to Fashion Week! (O-town style).
The fabulous Jes Lacasse, who is as cool in person as she seems on twitter (and who I really will get around to have come and help me deal with the madness that is my closet) had a contest on her blog for tickets to Fashion Week and through the power of random number selection I won!
One of my nearest and dearest and I got all gussied up (an exciting event for public servants) and trotted off in our heels to the National Gallery last night, which was a fabulous venue for the event. If you're ever wondering if people ever do get all gussied up in this government town, it does happen! There were many very snappy ensembles among the attendees.
With glasses of wine in hand and with VIP passes around our necks, we got into the second row so had a great view of all the shows. While some were a little... avant garde for our tastes, there were also some really cool designs. We didn't make too much fun of the craziest stuff or the really awkward models at times. Best of the night? Serendipity, beautiful vintage inspired clothes (I really want a wool skirt with an owl on it now). A few pics of the evening - thanks again Jes!
Gorgeous Serendipity dresses
Art being painted during the entertainment portion of the evening
Emily and Anastiya
Sunday, March 13, 2011
Sunday, Sunday
I seem to only be blogging on Sundays lately. It is the day of the week, unsurprisingly, that I have the most time and am most likely to be home for a long enough period of time to go 'Hey - I should blog!'.
By Sundays I am still feeling drained from the last week but have gotten enough sleep to feel capable of the week to come. This weekend has been relatively low key, attended a lovely birthday party on Friday night, yesterday went shopping with my mother, had dinner with my parents, and decided to decline the lovely offers I had to go out last night to get some quality couch time in. Today I've been doing a lot of laundry, cleaning, and had a brief sojourn to Welly West for some shopping with a friend. Am now back on the couch, with another load of laundry in and when its a bit closer to supper time will start on some delish soup to hopefully make dinner tonight, and a few lunches for through the week.
I have to admit to feeling a little fuzzy today thanks to the time change. (By the way - did you know it is actually, grammatically Daylight Saving(no s!) Time? Ken Jennings has a twitter and so informed me. Good lord I love twitter.) Spring is coming, I did buy some cute pieces to get my wardrobe started, but I think the new season is making me a little introspective and wondering what it will bring. There are some moderate scale changes going on at my work to deal with, while my social life is ramping back up with the return of Z (yay!) to town, perhaps getting a full time roomie in not too long, and with summer making everyone more inclined to get out and about (and play softball too!).
I really thought I had killed these orchids that I got at my housewarming last year, but they were sneaky and now have bloomed again. You never know what is around the corner, what life might be about to bring...
By Sundays I am still feeling drained from the last week but have gotten enough sleep to feel capable of the week to come. This weekend has been relatively low key, attended a lovely birthday party on Friday night, yesterday went shopping with my mother, had dinner with my parents, and decided to decline the lovely offers I had to go out last night to get some quality couch time in. Today I've been doing a lot of laundry, cleaning, and had a brief sojourn to Welly West for some shopping with a friend. Am now back on the couch, with another load of laundry in and when its a bit closer to supper time will start on some delish soup to hopefully make dinner tonight, and a few lunches for through the week.
I have to admit to feeling a little fuzzy today thanks to the time change. (By the way - did you know it is actually, grammatically Daylight Saving(no s!) Time? Ken Jennings has a twitter and so informed me. Good lord I love twitter.) Spring is coming, I did buy some cute pieces to get my wardrobe started, but I think the new season is making me a little introspective and wondering what it will bring. There are some moderate scale changes going on at my work to deal with, while my social life is ramping back up with the return of Z (yay!) to town, perhaps getting a full time roomie in not too long, and with summer making everyone more inclined to get out and about (and play softball too!).
I really thought I had killed these orchids that I got at my housewarming last year, but they were sneaky and now have bloomed again. You never know what is around the corner, what life might be about to bring...
Sunday, February 20, 2011
Statement of Merit
My dear employer has a rather convoluted and drawn out hiring and promotion process. In a bid to reduce nepotism and increase fairness, there are tests, oral interviews with set questions, and even before you hit those, the dreaded statement of merit. With every job posting there is a set list of qualifications and skills that you have to state VERY clearly in your submission you fulfill before you had a hope of being screened in. There are days I wonder how I ever was hired as doing them now is often a daunting task.
However, as both a perfectionist and a Virgo, I do have to applaud the organization of this system and it recently inspired me and my dear Chantal (to the right though she never updates her blog). It is actually not a bad model for looking for a boyfriend.
I promise that I am not as relationship obsessed as I seem this weekend but during my walk home from my fabulous massage this morning (Ott peeps - To.ni at Kneaded.Touch West.boro is amaaaaaaazing) I was mulling over it again (perhaps due to me looking at actual competitions I may apply to just for the sake of practise) and would like to share with you the current requirements for being LadyLaptop's next boyfriend.
Essential Qualifications:
- Graduation with a degree from a recognized university
- Either holding a permanent job or being enrolled in further educational pursuits
- Extensive relationship experience (ie. I cannot be your first real girlfriend, engineers I'm looking at YOU)
- Knowledge of a wide variety of topics (politics, sports, etc.) while not being way too informed on one or argumentative on these topics
- Ability to be friends with my friends
- Ability to operate independently and in a team (you have your own life but are able to build a new one with me)
- A combination of: a) owning their own place (living alone or with a roommate) or b) renting (alone or with a roommate) but in either case if there are roommates (or option c) living with family), owning their own motor vehicle and saving for their own home are required
- Ability to organize and set priorities for your own life (ambition is not a dirty word!)
- Ability to communicate not too much or too little (I don't need to know what you had for lunch but touching base and being able to talk is nice)
- Excellent intimate interpersonal skills ;)
- At least 25 years of age, no more than 40 years of age
- At least 5'8, in good physical condition
Asset Qualifications:
- Graduation with an advanced or professional degree from a recognized university
- Graduation with a degree in psychology (to put up with my craziness - j/k.... or am I?)
- Knowledge of dorky subjects (Star Trek, Firefly) while not being addicted to video games/comics (engineers, I am again looking at you)
- Leadership abilities, able to boot me out of my routine
- Strong family relationships
- Ability to hold your drink and keep up with my family
- Strong faith based beliefs (don't care what the beliefs are, but you should know your mind about it)
- Interest in children (if children are already possessed, essential they are out of diapers)
Now this list could either mark me as being a complete lunatic who might as well give up and resign myself to a life as a cat lady or maybe someone out there has a candidate to suggest? Constructive criticism welcomed.
However, as both a perfectionist and a Virgo, I do have to applaud the organization of this system and it recently inspired me and my dear Chantal (to the right though she never updates her blog). It is actually not a bad model for looking for a boyfriend.
I promise that I am not as relationship obsessed as I seem this weekend but during my walk home from my fabulous massage this morning (Ott peeps - To.ni at Kneaded.Touch West.boro is amaaaaaaazing) I was mulling over it again (perhaps due to me looking at actual competitions I may apply to just for the sake of practise) and would like to share with you the current requirements for being LadyLaptop's next boyfriend.
Essential Qualifications:
- Graduation with a degree from a recognized university
- Either holding a permanent job or being enrolled in further educational pursuits
- Extensive relationship experience (ie. I cannot be your first real girlfriend, engineers I'm looking at YOU)
- Knowledge of a wide variety of topics (politics, sports, etc.) while not being way too informed on one or argumentative on these topics
- Ability to be friends with my friends
- Ability to operate independently and in a team (you have your own life but are able to build a new one with me)
- A combination of: a) owning their own place (living alone or with a roommate) or b) renting (alone or with a roommate) but in either case if there are roommates (or option c) living with family), owning their own motor vehicle and saving for their own home are required
- Ability to organize and set priorities for your own life (ambition is not a dirty word!)
- Ability to communicate not too much or too little (I don't need to know what you had for lunch but touching base and being able to talk is nice)
- Excellent intimate interpersonal skills ;)
- At least 25 years of age, no more than 40 years of age
- At least 5'8, in good physical condition
Asset Qualifications:
- Graduation with an advanced or professional degree from a recognized university
- Graduation with a degree in psychology (to put up with my craziness - j/k.... or am I?)
- Knowledge of dorky subjects (Star Trek, Firefly) while not being addicted to video games/comics (engineers, I am again looking at you)
- Leadership abilities, able to boot me out of my routine
- Strong family relationships
- Ability to hold your drink and keep up with my family
- Strong faith based beliefs (don't care what the beliefs are, but you should know your mind about it)
- Interest in children (if children are already possessed, essential they are out of diapers)
Now this list could either mark me as being a complete lunatic who might as well give up and resign myself to a life as a cat lady or maybe someone out there has a candidate to suggest? Constructive criticism welcomed.
Saturday, February 19, 2011
Single Saturday Night
So it is a Saturday night and I am sitting at home. Today I slept in, did a whole whack of laundry, got my dad come over to change the lightbulbs that were 10 feet up, then went to Canadian Tire looking for a lampshade and bought SmartFood instead. I am so, so single and have to admit, not really feeling it tonight.
I have sent a couple of odd texts to my friends today, including the fact that I seem to have cribbed the break up talk I gave to the very sweet but not suited for me boy about a month ago, directly from a Sex and the City episode. That was followed by more lessons learned, including that 20 something guys suck (Anyone know a cute 30 year old?) that I need to get away from 'perfect on paper' guys.... and that I am feeling a little sorry for myself. Hopefully this will pass, along with this crazy cold streak we are currently experiencing.
As I mentioned, it is my own fault that I am single at the moment. I stand behind my decision, it wasn't the relationship or guy for me, but there are times it would be nice to have someone to call for a Saturday night date. I have for the moment sworn off online dating, won't date guys from work - I think I need to take up a hobby. Pool sharking? I could get a dog, hit the parks, but as ever Carrie is looking askance at my preferred dog....
I'll keep you updated on the relationship front but next week have one of my favourite partners in crime (who plays 'haaaaaave you met Anna' with the best of them) to help me play the scene, with my bestie forever also about to return to town, to bear the brunt of my neuroses to spare you some of the brunt. Next post will be funnier/funner I swear!
I have sent a couple of odd texts to my friends today, including the fact that I seem to have cribbed the break up talk I gave to the very sweet but not suited for me boy about a month ago, directly from a Sex and the City episode. That was followed by more lessons learned, including that 20 something guys suck (Anyone know a cute 30 year old?) that I need to get away from 'perfect on paper' guys.... and that I am feeling a little sorry for myself. Hopefully this will pass, along with this crazy cold streak we are currently experiencing.
As I mentioned, it is my own fault that I am single at the moment. I stand behind my decision, it wasn't the relationship or guy for me, but there are times it would be nice to have someone to call for a Saturday night date. I have for the moment sworn off online dating, won't date guys from work - I think I need to take up a hobby. Pool sharking? I could get a dog, hit the parks, but as ever Carrie is looking askance at my preferred dog....
I'll keep you updated on the relationship front but next week have one of my favourite partners in crime (who plays 'haaaaaave you met Anna' with the best of them) to help me play the scene, with my bestie forever also about to return to town, to bear the brunt of my neuroses to spare you some of the brunt. Next post will be funnier/funner I swear!
Sunday, February 6, 2011
Brief respite
I am home for approximately 36 hours in between the west and east coast swings of my trips. The west was absolutely fantastic, I loved Whitehorse and getting to spend some time in Vancouver again. I put up a few pictures on twitter (to the left, to the left) but more will come.
Travelling for work is totally different from pleasure, my day is not my own and often so jam packed that by the time evening rolls around I am exhuasted and all I see of my hotel room is my bed. It is great experience though and making me think I should consider living in another part of the country at some point. I continue to love the North and Whitehorse had an interesting northern/indie vibe going on (while also having a Starbucks) that rather appealed. We'll see.
Today was much fun, went to the Wed By Hand show with my dear A who is getting married in October, and got to spread the news about my dear L's engagement! So many people getting married, it's almost like we're grownups.
In the spirit of children getting to grow up and BECOME grownups, I just found this for the first time which is ABSOLUTELY amazing.
More stories to come soon, taking some time to watching 'Princess' with Gail Vaz Oxlade, which always inspires me to be good (and hopefully withstand the temptation of the $100 off coupon Coach just sent me, especially with the fact that I've managed to leave my iPod on a plane this week), soon to head back to A's to watch some Super Bowl (where I will cheer for the team with the fewest rapists, society is sad sometimes).
Travelling for work is totally different from pleasure, my day is not my own and often so jam packed that by the time evening rolls around I am exhuasted and all I see of my hotel room is my bed. It is great experience though and making me think I should consider living in another part of the country at some point. I continue to love the North and Whitehorse had an interesting northern/indie vibe going on (while also having a Starbucks) that rather appealed. We'll see.
Today was much fun, went to the Wed By Hand show with my dear A who is getting married in October, and got to spread the news about my dear L's engagement! So many people getting married, it's almost like we're grownups.
In the spirit of children getting to grow up and BECOME grownups, I just found this for the first time which is ABSOLUTELY amazing.
More stories to come soon, taking some time to watching 'Princess' with Gail Vaz Oxlade, which always inspires me to be good (and hopefully withstand the temptation of the $100 off coupon Coach just sent me, especially with the fact that I've managed to leave my iPod on a plane this week), soon to head back to A's to watch some Super Bowl (where I will cheer for the team with the fewest rapists, society is sad sometimes).
Sunday, January 30, 2011
Thank goodness it's the 31st (well, almost)
To be honest, January 2011 has pretty much sucked ass. My personal life continued to contain awkward and sad moments (which I even had to initiate), I worked like a mad person at work and it was cold. Oh so cold.
The Sens are losing too.
So it is without any regret that I bid adieu to this month. February is already looking up, with some work travel to the actual north and both coasts. I also get to see some my now far flung nearest and dearest.
Am also all packed for these travels, rocking many zip loc bags as suggested by the lovely Z (see sidebar) who is now returned to North America! CANNOT wait to see her and some of my other friends... Anyways, gotta keep moving but will talk soon!
The Sens are losing too.
So it is without any regret that I bid adieu to this month. February is already looking up, with some work travel to the actual north and both coasts. I also get to see some my now far flung nearest and dearest.
Am also all packed for these travels, rocking many zip loc bags as suggested by the lovely Z (see sidebar) who is now returned to North America! CANNOT wait to see her and some of my other friends... Anyways, gotta keep moving but will talk soon!
Sunday, January 23, 2011
It's so romantic
I had an excellent night last night, had an old school sleepover (including Shirley Temples with vodka) with some of my dear undergrad roomies. We watched 'My Best Friend's Wedding', Lonely Island clips (tip - setting a drinking game that requires you to drink every time they say 'boat' during 'I'm on a boat' is not for the foolhardy) and got some good gossiping in. These are the people in my life that I need to make time for, because they make me laugh, they know me well enough to not take my b.s. and be sure of why I made decisions, and help me grow as a person. They're my girls and I'll love them always.
I think I have mentioned before that my former housemates all looooooove Harlequin Romances. We have over the years (going on 8 now that we have known each other) quite a collection (below are just a few that were bestowed on the first of us to get married, along with the cut out of C who couldn't make the bachelorette, so we carried around her picture all night until it got left in the bar - only somewhat typical).
When I was still in Mtl, my both (then) present and past roomie Liz and I had a plan to write a Harlequin with a protaganist in grad school. She would be brilliant, her true beauty obscured by the schlumpy clothes and lab coat. It would only when a dashing post doc from somewhere abroad (either Spain, Italy or the Middle East) arrived that she would bloom into a (true) woman. They would go off and have lots of very smart babies.
I was thinking today though - could you write a romance novel about public servants? I mean, grad school was a bit of a stretch but even that had the possibilities of late nights alone in the lab, in an exotic jungle for your field work and a fairly common culture of multiple nationalities being represented in a small area. I am the first to admit that public service is not exactly the most exciting of domains and I myself have a rule to not date my coworkers but I've come up with a few plot points that could work:
- a handsome deputy directer, named Henri, on secondment from Hull
- seduces the somewhat mousy but truly beautiful once she lets down her hair analyst (they usually have ridiculous names but at the moment we're going with Veronica) in her cubicle one night after they complete an MC (the cubicle being so small ideal for leverage)
- since they are both on compressed, they take a glamorous long weekend to Kingston, where she is shocked to mistake his Blackberry for hers and find out that he has instructed his former DM to shoot down their MC saving the rare endangered spotted beaver for reasons of economics: his departments wants to build a pipeline there instead
- she flees back to Ottawa but there is only one more train (thanks Via!) that day so they are both on it. They have an angry but steamy encounter in one of those teeny bathrooms.
- she finds out when they get back that actually the pipeline will be built to serve as an ideal habitat for the beavers and they both get promoted.
- they go on to have several adorable children, who play in the daycare in their office building, and who will one day become public servants themselves.
What do you think? Is this a best seller to read on the bus on your way to work or what?
Sunday, January 16, 2011
Le tired
It's been a couple of busy weeks here. I am very, very occupied at work, getting ready to do some travelling to run regional meetings off the national one I recently organized here in our fair capital, which went pretty well, but needs to be improved upon and refined.
I have also had some wonderful guests, a former (and maybe future?) roomie T, while she was doing an internship in town and a whack of other old friends from Mtl for some good times. But I must admit, that I did have a bit of a skip in my step as I waved them off this morning and closed and LOCKED my door.
I have obviously become more accustomed to my alone time than I thought.
I had a lovely phone chat this evening with former roomie Liz, where she picked up the usual thread of my best friend Z (who is almost back from S. America!!) of telling me I am way too busy and overscheduled in my life as a whole. I am beginning to hear that message loud and clear, I have felt my stress levels rising and despite having a house guest last week, was rather boring and in bed by 10 most of the week. I think I need to push hard to make that a habit, because I am sure criss crossing the country will do a wonder on my sense of time and rest.
L and I had a bit of a disagreement over whether I am an introvert or extrovert. I say I am an extroverted introvert which she scoffed at. I love to be around people and be part of the party but at times I do feel the need to pull back and be on my own, closer to the edge. But no matter what part of the party I'm at, I do need to get better at saying no to the parties I really don't feel like attending, or that aren't important and focus on the things and people in my life who ARE important. Namely me. Here's to trying.
Wednesday, January 5, 2011
In the minority
The vast majority of times, I am not in the minority. I am a white woman of Irish heritage, of Christian (complicated Christian but Christian nonetheless), with brown hairs, blue eyes, an average build and height. But for two years of middle school in among the toughest schools in town, I have always been clearly among my peers. Through undergraduate, where I slowly picked up the traits and styles of those around me (Queen's - where you to go act like a sheep at times. Baa). In my Masters, I worked with two girls who looked and acted so much like me we were commonly mistaken as sisters.
I have worked in several environments, with people of all types and backgrounds and never have I felt so out of place as in the past few months.... working with 50 year old men.
I have nothing against fifty year old men. I have several uncles of that era whom I adore. My dad is no longer quite in his fifties but he is still pretty awesome. I have had bosses before of that vintage who were great guys, and we got along great.
Why the issue now?
I am now in a sector which has been traditionally, a sector dominated by men. The guys I work with have on average (I think) put in at least 15-20 years into this topic. They are incredibly knowledgeable and engaged, motivated and have been incredibly welcoming to me. They're not really used to women being around, and that I am soon to be the equal (rank wise) to them, but they are trying and I give them props.
Yet, they are at times so out of touch I want to scream. They ask me to do tasks better fitting to an administrative assistant - which I am sorry, but I am not. Check my title, and the letters behind my name.
They are incapable of the simplest technological tasks, including dialing into a conference call, copying a piece of paper or not having to print out an Excel spreadsheet to look at it. I spent my morning on a conference call listen to several men berate (in the nicest of ways) a poor (female!) technological specialist that when they printed out the spreadsheets she prepared, they looked different. I am sure they have no clue how to set up the printing areas. I have never met this girl but was sending her a psychic hug. Thank goodness no one can see the faces I make while on teleconferences! (Though I have to be very careful on the days we do videoconference...)
They give me very well meaning advice but they do it, stopping by my cubicle for a friendly chat, when I am actually doing work. I really don't care about your collection that much (and I can fake it pretty well after years of assuring my father the blues is indeed, SO interesting).
I know I will adapt. And we do get along. Our corny senses of humour line up very well, my boss's jokes do make me laugh. Just stop getting 'Twitter' wrong OK?
(Eesh - my poor 60 year old father, this loss tonight is going to hit him hard. Next year boys. I, however, am quite pleased I declined to go out tonight and spend money, rather stayed in, made awesome soup [post to follow] and am going to bed on time.)
Saturday, January 1, 2011
The Year to Come
Well another year has passed and I ushered in the new one in one of my favourite cities, dancing with some of my favourite people, a cocktail in hand. Let's hope that sets the tone for the rest of the year, I did the same last year and 2010 was pretty cool so I'm feeling fairly confident.
I would say that hopefully I'll be back there for New Years Eve 2011 but I actually don't, I have hatched a plan to be somewhere warm and ideally all inclusive for next year, and will start squirreling away the money for that as soon as my raise comes through.
I would say that hopefully I'll be back there for New Years Eve 2011 but I actually don't, I have hatched a plan to be somewhere warm and ideally all inclusive for next year, and will start squirreling away the money for that as soon as my raise comes through.
Current possible locales:
(Vegas baby!)
(The Caribbean - all inclusive or cruising style)
(You want to come along? The more the merrier!)
I would say that not much changed in 2010 but as I was working on this post (slightly hungover, on the train on my way back from Montreal) I realized that a lot has happened this year. I moved out (again) into my very own condo, I got a new, great job, with an even greater raise, I met and developed friendships with great people, and am trying really hard to overcome my neuroses. I already have some great events on the book for 2011, including the weddings of some of my nearest and dearest, getting to see more of this great country of mine and as previously mentioned, hopefully a trip to somewhere warm and fabulous to finish off the year.
I would say that not much changed in 2010 but as I was working on this post (slightly hungover, on the train on my way back from Montreal) I realized that a lot has happened this year. I moved out (again) into my very own condo, I got a new, great job, with an even greater raise, I met and developed friendships with great people, and am trying really hard to overcome my neuroses. I already have some great events on the book for 2011, including the weddings of some of my nearest and dearest, getting to see more of this great country of mine and as previously mentioned, hopefully a trip to somewhere warm and fabulous to finish off the year.
Here's to it!
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